5 Ways To Know That You Need To Spice It Up In The Bedroom
It can be hard to spice things up in the bedroom, especially when the flames between you and your boyfriend have died down to embers. However, sometimes it can be hard to face reality. We force ourselves to see a fire – even though the fire burned out long ago. Kind of like the way the stars we see in the sky have actually died millions of years ago. So, if you want to get your sex life back, you need to know the signs that it’s an ice age in your bedroom.
Here are some ways to know that you need to spice it up in the bedroom…
1. You wear sweatpants and a baggy sweatshirt to bed. This lovely ensemble does not say, “I want to have sex” – it actually says, “I could eat ice cream and then fall asleep with the spoon in my mouth.” If you find this happening more and more, you may want to think about wearing something a little sexier to bed. You may just get that flame back.
2. You eat dessert or dinner in bed. Unless you have a fetish for Rocky Road ice-cream and fried chicken in bed, by all means, but if you don’t – not many people do – you probably want to keep the junk food out of the bedroom at all times. The bedroom is for doing two things: sleeping and having sex. So, designate your bedroom as such – and not as an impromptu dining room for the lazy – and you may be able to get your sex life back on track.
3. You have sex, but it’s the same position every single time. If you have sex with your man and it’s always the same position – you on top or him on top – there is a good chance that your routine has gotten a little boring. So, you may want to think about playing around with a few different positions. It will be hard to break the habit, but for the sake of your sex life, you may have to.
4. You are always so tired. If you keep choosing sleep over sex, there is definitely a problem. You would have never done that when you were single. If you are too tired for sex, you may want to think about getting in bed when you have the energy. Or instead of binge watching TV shows until you can’t keep your eyes open, why not choose sex?
5. You can’t remember the last time you had sex. If you can’t remember when you last had sex, you may have a big problem on your hands. Either the relationship just isn’t working out or you need a lifeline. I recommend picking up some hot sex toys – maybe a few vibrators and some naughty handcuffs. There is a good chance that all you need is a little adventure.
In the end, sex shouldn’t be something you are afraid of – it should be something you are comfortable with. You don’t need to have sex a million times a day, but you should be trying to find different ways to spice it up in the bedroom.
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